I Can't Believe You Said That!
My story about using my social filter?or not!
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RJ is a youngster who always says what he thinks no matter how it sounds or makes others feel.
RJ doesn't realize his words are wrong. He thinks he's just speaking the truth and offering feedback. Throughout the story, RJ is taught how to analyze social situations before he speaks and to choose appropriate words to say, or none at all. With help from his parents, he discovers he doesn't have to verbalize every thought that pops into his head. In fact, sometimes the less said the better!
This storybook is the seventh in Julia Cook's BEST ME I Can Be! series which teaches children social skills that can make home life happier and school more successful. Tips for parents and educators on how to effectively choose appropriate words to say, analyze social situations, think before you speak, and control impulses are included at the end of the picture book.
The series also includes:
- The WORST Day of My Life EVER!I Just Don't Like the Sound of NO!
- TEAMWORK Isn't My Thing, and I Don't Like to SHARE!
- SORRY, I Forgot to Ask!
- THANKS for the FEEDBACK... (I THINK?)
- I Just Want to Do It MY WAY!
About this Author
Julia Cook, a former school counselor and teacher, has written many books on behavior and health for children. Julia has the innate ability to enter the worldview of a child through storybooks, giving parents and educators the what to say and how to say it to kids. Her ultimate goal is to make a positive difference in the lives of children, parents and educators by teaching lifelong problem-solving skills to kids. Julia has received the Association for Educational Publishers Distinguished Achievement Award, and her books have been honored by the National Parenting Center and Mom's Choice Awards. Julia has presented in more than 800 schools across the country and regularly delivers keynote addresses at national education, counseling and character conferences.
Reviews
?RJ is such a relatable character ? nearly everyone has experienced a momentary lapse of their social filter! This book describes the connection between thoughts and appropriate social responses, using contexts that children have likely encountered themselves. A perfect resource to introduce children to the importance of social mindfulness.? ? Jill D. Kuzma, M.A., CCC-SLP
"I have purchased many of Julia Cook's books. They are very good for working with Elementary school children. This book in particular, I can't believe you said that! is a wonderful resource for working with students on what to say and what to think. Boy's Town Press seems to have the best prices as well." - M Wawrzynski
"This book is so great - an oldie but a goodie for talking about social filters and thinking before we speak. I?m wrapping up using it with my fourth graders tomorrow and reflecting on a change I?ve made when reading it (letting in some laughs!). Shared a little more in my instastories (and will share more about the lesson tomorrow)." - Sara, @theresponsivecounselor
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